There is no question about it, and statistics will back it up, good looking and handsome people get on better with other people than those not so fortunate in the looks department. The better looking you are, the less harder you have to work to make friends. Let’s face it, guys would you rather take Susan Boyle out on a date or Megan Fox? And girls would you say yes to going out on a date with Johnny Depp or Steve Tyler? I rest my case.
Now attractiveness is very hard to define, and we all have different perceptions as to what we see as attractive. If we ignore the obvious impairments such as big noses and buck teeth, all of which can be corrected with a trip to the dentist or plastic surgeon, is difficult to define. Then there are some people like Julia Roberts and Sean Penn who aren’t exactly classically good looking, but we find them attractive due to their charm, magnetism and charisma. They have presence and personality that grabs your attention.
You too must have these non-physical attributes and qualities that are attractive. Besides they are much easier to obtain then looks anyway. Looks are superficial and most people can see past them. But if they look past your looks and see that your personality isn’t so good looking, it wont work in your favour at all, no matter how many blessings you’ve been given in the looks department. Dress well, have good grooming, and cultivate a smile. Not much to ask for to give yourself a boost in being attractive to your colleagues and clients. Looks are all in the smile and the eyes.
Do you slouch at work? Look scruffy? If so, you need to change. When walking around the office and to a meeting, stand erect, proud and assured. Give a firm handshake. Show your confident and happy to be wherever you are. Then your colleagues and clients will gain trust and confidence in you. This is what it means to be attractive. Not looking exactly like Brad Pitt or Michael Buble. Just walk and talk like them!
Author: Matthew Coppola, Managing Director of Client Centric.
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